If \(x(R\mathbin{\Delta}S) y\), then one of these possibilities must hold: \((x,y)\in R\) and \((x,y) \notin S\), or else \((x,y)\notin R\) and \((x,y) \in S\). Then either \((y,x)\in R\) and \((y,x) \notin S\), or else \((y,x)\notin R\) and \((y,x) \in S\), and therefore \(y(R\mathbin{\Delta}S) x\).